Actually, it's not that bad of an order, imagine if you invite a friend just to get their parents or yours to deny the request, it would feel quite disappointing, so by getting permission first you already have it covered.

Hoy_Menoy said:

Actually, it's not that bad of an order, imagine if you invite a friend just to get their parents or yours to deny the request, it would feel quite disappointing, so by getting permission first you already have it covered.

Yeah that happend to me once....